Bobbi Lynn Gibson-Bachelor of Arts

5 Tips about the struggles and how to help

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No one checks on me, no invitations, no hellos;

No birthday cards, no inclusion, ignored;

Unseen, overlooked, misunderstood, underestimated;

Unreceived credit where credit was due;

And slowly disappearing-no one ever knew.

It is easy to disregard or misunderstand someone. We all do it. We are busy with our schedules, planning…

It’s tough dealing with escalating arguments and jealousy.

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How’s Married Life? Escalating Arguments.

The Art of Arguing and taking turns in conversation is something both my husband and I had to learn. Each person in the relationship needs to feel heard.

You can solve many problems simply by allowing the other person to say what’s on their mind and repeat back the words…

Find solutions, redesign, adapt and modify your environment to thrive.

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When life has you by the throat, find solutions, redesign your environment, and modify.

What’s your most significant aggravation? Is it noise, crowds, socializing?

Is it lights, sounds, close proximity to others, and communication? It is for me.

Sit down and write out what struggles you have and analyze where…

Bobbi Lynn Gibson-Bachelor of Arts

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